Presenting a eulogy for a loved one could be the saddest thing and the most difficult public speaking endeavor you could ever experience. They just keep it for themselves as part of their memories with the dead person.
Even if you do not suffer from public speaking nerves, it would be a good idea to practice giving your eulogy in front of a family member or a friend. Poems can be the perfect way to get across what you want to say. Some funeral homes and cremation societies have rooms for you to use.
This is all very hard to do in the little amount of time you are actually giving the speech. The truth is that death is a doorway into a new home, an entrance to new way of living life with God and you. This is a celebration of your loved ones life, you shouldn't feel that it is necessary to find poems which are too morbid, if you want something up beat and cheerful then do it.
As hard as it may seem right now, it gets better. Grieving is normal as it forms part of our complex emotions as human beings.
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