Wednesday, June 25, 2008

poems for funerals

There is a growing collection of funeral poems. Central to the funeral and concluding the public grieving period following a death is the eulogy, a funeral speech about the person who died.

Going through some of the funeral poems with friends and family members really helps, some of the poems may make you laugh because they are such the complete opposite of the person you've just lost that you have a good laugh about it. Personal experiences are expected to be re told and reminisced, and to be shared with other people who will be listening. If giving the eulogy is overwhelming to you, remember that while it may seem daunting, there are tips that can help you manage your anxiety and help you provide a service to both the living in their moment of loss and to the one you have lost.

And because the funeral home is so ingrained in the landscape of the town, you will be met with a familiar face, people who know you and your family. If it helps, concentrate on one person in the audience that you know and love and speak to them. Focus your writings on what the deceased did during their lifetimes, and not on the sadness of their death.

Writing a eulogy for someone you knew well and probably loved can be a difficult thing to do. Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made.

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